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Monday, April 6, 2015



Long distance relationship work?

A long distance relationship is no different from a relationship lived 'near' because both require hard work, good communication, patience, sacrifice and understanding.
Indeed, if the distance there is an extra effort to keep communicating and stay focused enough so as not to interfere with daily life desire to be with each other. The basis for a good relationship distance relationship is a good, requires that both partners be prone to a stable relationship and trust one another and be sufficiently independent and creative so they can fill the void left in many ways during the absence of the other. Important factors that ensure the functioning of such relationships is the degree of consolidation torque -with the more solid, the more chances to resist new experiences are higher - and deadline knowledge of the "pause". It is important to have a clear concept which ensures the two partners that distance is limited in time, things will be back to normal by the time "x." Limitation while lack of time limits compared to maintain the illusion of stability couple, couple creates hope validity beyond that date, consider returning. This relationship provides safety deserve "sacrifice". A relationship can work remotely but all it is not suitable for everyone or in every situation for independent people with milder medical need, whose need for space and freedom weighs more than constantly living in two, which can live for semi-solitude without considered this to be problematic, such a relationship fits perfectly. Also, people who as children were accustomed absent from family members can live comfortably this 'absence' as adults. Of course, if long absences caused problems childhood, long-distance relationships can be difficult to maintain. Those who were close family, both physically and emotionally, can sometimes have a hard time to keep such a relationship or to decide to go away from home at a time . Those who crave physical closeness, often feel a need to ensure other emotional comfort, safety, warmth, needing approval and confirmation from the partner have little chance to keep a long distance relationship. For the relationship to remain a stage sufficiently stimulating to partners is important to maintain an effective level of communication, regardless of which way (modern technology allows many ways of keeping the connection) to facilitate the sharing of individual experiences like those two would live side by another. It is important for them to feel emotionally connected to each other - if one partner is experiencing a problem, there is a critical situation unpleasant (familial, professional, social, etc.) is required to offer their support other , to be present. If everyone uses to solve problems alone, eventually there will be no need to call-desire partner. An advantage of distance relationship is that both partners are more creative in keeping alive the emotion, to compensate, somehow compensate the lack of physical contact.

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